by Kara-Leah Grant
This is an impossible question to answer – at least, to answer definitively, but I’m still going to give it a damn good crack. And with good reason.
Despite the fact that yoga has nothing to do whatsoever with flexibility – that flexibility is a side benefit of one’s yoga practice and no measure of the depth or strength of one’s yoga practice – yoga and flexibility are intimately intertwined in the modern idea of yoga.
There’s a good reason for this.
We are predominantly a visual culture, and the dominating visual image of “yoga” has become asana (yoga postures) with the flow on effect that the dominating image of “good” yoga has become deeply flexible asana.
As a result, it’s very easy to equate the depth of one’s backbend with the depths of one’s yoga practice. However, there is no direct correlation between the two.
If you have deep backbends, you may have a deep yoga practice. Or you may be naturally bendy. Or perhaps you’re a former dancer or gymnast.
Conversely, you can have difficulty with backbends and yet still have a deep and strong yoga practice.
So don’t equate flexibility with yoga – the two have a casual relationship at best.
However, that said, regular practice of yoga asana will, in time, done with awareness, likely open your body up and make you more flexible.
How flexible?
That depends on your body – on the construction of your bones, your muscles, your ligaments and your tendons, and, as we’ll find out, on your mind.
Everyone has a natural range of movement and at the full extension of your natural range of movement, you will look different in your forward bend than I will.
Paul Grilley has done excellent work on the fundamental difference between tension and compression and how it informs our yoga practice. When we hit tension, we’re at a place that can be worked with using our breath and awareness. When we hit compression, we’ve reached the natural endpoint of our range of movement within our body.
Learning to distinguish between tension and compression is a vital aspect of our yoga practice.
Grilley defines compression as:
“The final mechanical limit to range of motion is when bones contact.”
On a practical level, if you’re in a standing forward bend and the top of your femur bone is hitting the inside of your hip joint, regardless of whether your belly is flat on your thighs or not, you’ve hit bone on bone compression, and this is the final mechanical rage of motion limit in your forward bend.
Striving to go deeper in the forward bend because you have a fixed idea of what the asana is meant to look like puts you at risk of injury.
Before you ask how long it’s going to take to “get flexible” you need to understand what compression feels like, you need to let go of fixed ideas of ideal postures and you need to learn to work with your body as it is.
Think about backbends for a moment.
Yes, the range of motion in a backbend is determined by our muscles. But it’s also determined by the physical limitations of the vertebral arches, the anterior longitudinal ligament (this runs down the inside of the spine), the disks and the superior and inferior articular processes (boney protrusions of the vertebra).
As we physically progress in our yoga practice and our backbends do deepen, it is important to know that what we’re actually doing in our yoga asana practice is practicing awareness, focus, and embodiment. The depth of our asana is a mere by-product of these three intangible processes.
If we are practicing with an eye to gaining flexibility or strength without awareness, focus or embodiment we’re not actually practicing yoga and our risk of injury is likely higher.
Plus, if we’re going physically deeper into our practice without a solid biomechanical understanding of the body, we can easily get stuck in cul-de-sacs, spending months trying to get somewhere that is not possible for our body.
Take the image to the left. It shows Duncan Peak in a forward bend – he’s not as deep as some yogis might be with their belly flat against the spine and head against the shins or knees, but he’s at compression within his body. That’s the perfect forward bend for Duncan. There’s no point in him working to get any deeper – it’s not possible for his body.
Coming back around then, now that we know we all have different end-point range of movements, is it possible to answer the question, how long does it take to get flexible with regular yoga practice?
According to Duncan, who has studied with Paul Grilley and many other top yoga teachers, it takes about three years.
Duncan says that if you have been regularly and diligently practicing yoga for three years – we’re talking maybe five times a week, 60 – 90 minutes a day – you’ll likely hit your end range of motion. After that, it’s possible that with a practice like Yin that works deeply on the fascia you may find another 5% or so of movement, but you’re unlikely to get any bendier.
However, this is talking about muscular openings that are not being impeded by the nervous system. This is where our yoga practice moves out of a purely biomechanical perspective and moves into our neurology.
It turns out that our minds, via our nervous systems, also have a strong impact on how flexible we are.
It’s entirely possible to be breathing into a yoga asana with the intention of opening the body while also on a subconscious level resisting the stretch via the nervous system, or stretch reflex.
This sets up a strange situation where you could be doing the same posture for ten years and never get any bendier at all… until you become aware of the unconscious holding via the nervous system.
And this reiterates the supreme importance of awareness in our yoga practice. Via asana and conscious breathing we are learning to make the unconscious, conscious. If we never practice with any degree of awareness, our practice won’t deepen – not on the yoga level, and sometimes not on the physical level either.
Case in point.
I’ve been practicing yoga fairly consistently since 2000 and I’ve had a mostly-daily practice since 2004. I started teaching yoga in 2006 and have done several workshops, retreats and teacher trainings. In short, lots and lots and lots of yoga over the last decade.
However, it has only been in the last six months that my forward bends have begun to really open up. Granted, when I started, I had a severe handicap. My spine had been fused at age 16 and my range of motion in 2000 was abysmal.
When I did a standing forward bend, my hands could only reach my knees – there was no chance of my fingers getting anywhere near the ground.
Still, you’d think that with maybe five years on consistent practice I’d be able to reach my natural end range of motion with my belly somewhere close to or on my thighs.
Not a chance. At the beginning of the year, fourteen years into my yoga practice, my forward bends still felt stiff and halting.
Then I began practicing with Ashtanga teacher Peter Sanson. Not because I was an Ashtanga yogi, but because he was the first teacher I went to who could see how my unconscious tension holding patterns were preventing me from opening up into the posture. It was only through gaining awareness of these patterns that I was able to begin to let go of them.
The result?
My forward bends have opened up more in the last six months than possibly the last three years.
Not because of constant practice, but because of constant awareness in practice. In my case, I required the awareness of a teacher to first draw my attention to something that was so familiar to me that I didn’t know it was happening. Once Peter drew my attention to it, I was able to work on constantly bringing my own awareness to that tension in every practice.
A few weeks ago I took a class with Peter Sterios. He used a cue in the forward bends that opened up another level of awareness within my body and I found another degree of ease within my forward bends. Not because the muscles were gaining any greater level of flexibility, but because I was learning to let go of deep levels of tension within the nervous system.
This means that it’s impossible to answer the question, How Long Does it Take To Get Flexible in Yoga?
But you can understand the journey that is required to become more flexible.
First, you have to realise that flexibility looks different for every person. You need to let go of the idea of attaining some perfect posture.
Second, you need to learn to distinguish between tension and compression in your practice so you know when you hit the mechanical end range of movement within your body.
Third, you need to learn how to become aware of not just muscular tension but also mental and emotional tension. This will help you go deeper over time when it’s not muscular tension holding you back, but mental holding patterns.
Now you’ve reached a place where you can discern between tension and compression plus you can also sense all three types of tension in your body – physical, mental and emotional tension.
With that understanding, you can actively continue to practice towards the limits of flexibility within your body.
Remember though, that these limits are always changing too. As we age, we do lose some range of movement. While it’s likely to be less if we have a consistent yoga practice, yogis are not immune to ageing!
But that’s yoga right – learning to distinguish between the always changing and the unchanging, the real and the unreal.
Flexibility? Nothing to do with yoga – a mere by-product.
Awareness? That’s the yoga, Cultivate the awareness and the flexibility will follow.
Allison says
Excellent article! I can relate to feeling tightness and resistance in forward bends (in my case, the bikram “standing separate leg stretching” – can’t get my head to touch the floor), despite practicing for more than a decade. While flexibility is not my main goal in yoga, I often wonder why I don’t seem to make much progress in this posture, after all these years. This article has got me thinking about possible unconscious tension I could be holding onto. So I’m going to keep this in mind during the next class and try to really practice awareness.
Kara-Leah Grant says
Hey Allison,
I’ve found it really helpful to work with excellent teachers – sometimes just the way they talk to me, cue me, or adjust me makes the world of difference. I’ve also discovered that different cues make an enormous difference too… depending on what’s required in the body. If you’ve never tried an Anusara-inspired teacher, I’d suggest giving that a go as they have some great cues and ways of working into the body. It’s always good to mix it up! Something else that worked for me in forward-bends has been to focus on the feeling-sense of the posture – it’s all aobut letting go & surrendering, rather than working or striving to get anyway. Relaxed the shoulders made a huge difference!
Stephen Lomax says
Great article Kara . Ive re started yoga and being regular for about a year as I was improving I made the great mistake of overdoing it ending up with heaematuria for a week for bruising the capsule of my kidney doing side stretches in a yin class. .
This has been a wakeup call and your article has helped me re focus on what yoga is as you say flexibility is a by product . I huff and puff through sun salutations and Im 52 so my emphasis is to slow down focus on prana and stretch GENTLY . Being old3er has the benefits of the spirtual side and knowledge already being gleaned from experiences .
There is a real danger in the Novice period of overdoing it as the initial benefits come quickly . I guess listening to the instructor and not thinking you know as much as the instructor as youve read a few books and seen a few you tube classes
Again Yoga is about you your limits , your aspirations your journey . At 52 my aims are to try and halt decrepitivity and get a good core strength . Practice being good and humble and be more spiritual. Yoga has helped me yolk these aspects together but Im still a Novice it takes a life time or several to get it right.
Thanks for your lunchbox a great way to re focus on your goals each week
Nameste
Steve
Kara-Leah Grant says
Hey Stephen,
Ouch! It never occurred to me one could bruise an organ from yoga! Good to know it’s possible. Yes, moving slowly and with gentle ease can often yield better results, for sure. Enjoy your journey into yoga.
jude mahood says
Just got back from a Yin Yoga workshop with Bernie Clarke in Vancouver. This is exactly what he was teaching us – learn to differentiate tension from compression and consider mental and emotional tension as part of the equation (and of course Bernie and Paul go back a long way!). Fabulous workshop and such common sense. I loved it!
jude
Kara-Leah Grant says
Hey Jude,
It sounds like that would have been an amazing workshop!
Megha says
Hello kara…thx for the article…i also had a long journey. I have learned to be patient when it comes to opening of body nd mind with yoga…jus wanted to understand if i was on right track as i m too taking long time with my practise.
Can you please explain if there is a way to make understand how is the feeling of compression ie. Bone touching bone and realizing that you body has reached its limit…so that we understand and can also explain it to our students…thx!
summer says
A most amazing and powerful article! It really hit the spot in so many ways. I have just been to an amazing Reiki Tummo/Open YOur Heart retreat in Melbourne and felt so much love and opening that having not done yoga for over 2 weeks will be interesting to see how my flow/asanas will go when I attend next time.. Looking forward to what I will experience as my heart certainly feels a lot more open and just surrendering to everything.. Like what you have written in your article about the heart and opening up, however it sometimes takes a broken heart and many lessons of the unemotionally avaliable man to see this light and the best lesson for us to evolve further into the right direction. No experience is ever a negative one as we are protected by a higher force, its just up to our hearts (not our egos/mind) to interpret the experience. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and being so honest, it is very inspiring and helpful to read such an open heart blog xo
Natalie Thomas says
Hey Kara-Leah
Great article! I had been pondering over this same topic for many years also.
I am naturally much more flexible in my back bending than forward bends…I remember being that way since my ballet classes when I was a kid. Even after years of regular yoga practice there are many asanas I still find challenging, and I have been practicing since I was 12!
However….you are so right about the relationship between our nervous system, emotions and how open we can be in a pose.
I had never been able to get into hanumanasana splits even with a focused practice on that (think personal drill sergeant in my head, sooo wrong!) until I had some reiki healing and let go of some unhealthy patterns…then voila, one day I just felt my body want to be that open and it happened.
I am glad you wrote this article as most of us need to heal and become aware of our internal states much more than focus on aesthetics of asana
with much respect and admiration ,
Naty
Ben Oliveira says
Great article! I believe is one of the reasons a lot of people don’t even start practing yoga: they are afraid they are not flexible enough.
I think the flexibility of mind is very important.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
Greetings from Brazil.
Mats says
Everything I can find about yoga on internet is positive, I dont find anything that is matching my experience of yoga.
I have attended three yoga classes recently, the third one yesterday.
I have tried yoga about fifteen times before and usually had problems, but the reason I keep trying it is that I really want it to work out, I compare myself to an unfit person getting started with exercise, of course there will be problems in the beginning.
I want to believe that what im experiencing right now is something that would disappear if I just keep on doing it, but im paying a high price. Today im having an anxiety in the body and cant focus on anything, also the similar anxiety that can appear from nowhere on a hangover. This is not the first time im feeling like this after yoga. It seems to do everything opposite to me from what it does to other people.
I wish someone could explain why this is happening, for example:
Yes some people get messed up from yoga, they should just stay away from it to feel good.
Or,
Yes this is normal in the beginning when getting used to yoga, it will disappear after a while.
When I went out from the class yesterday, I actually felt really good, laughing and experiencing some kind of high, and I didnt have any problems the rest of the day. This might also be a reason why I keep coming back, because it makes me feel good too.
The first two classes I was attending now, I was really careful and cheated a bit to take it easy in the beginning and avoid problems, and I was ok the following days. Now the third time I kind of got sucked into it and was doing it more serious, which is kind of hard to avoid.
Do you have any advices?
Kim says
Excellent article. This is just the response I needed as someone who just started practicing.
Leidy Sorany Toro says
Lovely read, happy I came across this article since I have struggled with flexibility since teenage yrs… always feeling like I’m not flexible enough even after having practice yoga for over 6ys. Yoga did improve my flexibility, but even tho I’m not nearly as flexible as many yogis I know my body reached is max flex to this day. I still get all the benefits of the asanas tho… ❤️